Dr. Leta Vega
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Makeup Tips for Women Over 60: Enhancing Beauty at Every Age

Makeup after 60 is less about covering up and more about enhancing the natural beauty that comes with experience and confidence. Mature skin benefits from lightweight, hydrating formulas that won’t settle into fine lines. A tinted moisturizer or light foundation with a dewy finish helps create a fresh, healthy glow without looking heavy.

Brows play a big role in framing the face, especially as they tend to thin with age. Using a soft brow pencil or powder to gently fill in sparse areas can instantly give a more lifted, youthful appearance. When it comes to eyes, neutral matte shades and soft shimmers work beautifully, while harsh, dark lines can sometimes look heavy. A thin line of brown or charcoal liner near the lashes creates definition without overpowering the eye.

Blush is your best friend. Soft peach, rose, or warm pink tones bring life back to the complexion and give a natural-looking flush. For lips, creamy formulas are more forgiving than matte ones. Shades like soft berry, coral, or classic rose offer color without emphasizing lines.

The most important element of makeup at any age? Confidence. A warm smile and a relaxed, happy face will always be the most flattering look you can wear.

Dating in Menopause: When Your Hormones Retire but Your Dating Life Refuses To

Dating in menopause is not for the faint of heart. This is not the cute, flirty dating of your twenties where you survived on mascara, optimism, and three hours of sleep. This is advanced-level dating, where your hormones have clocked out, your tolerance is limited, and your body temperature can change faster than your mood.

Welcome to menopausal dating and bring water, patience, and a fan.

Once upon a time, dating involved butterflies. Now it involves hot flashes that feel like a personal attack. You can be having a perfectly normal conversation and suddenly your internal thermostat screams, “NOW IS THE TIME TO SELF-COMBUST.” You smile politely while mentally debating whether it’s socially acceptable to remove your cardigan, earrings, and possibly your dignity.

And let’s talk about energy. Dating apps assume you have the stamina to chat endlessly with strangers. Menopause says, “You have exactly 20 minutes before you need a nap.” The emotional labor of explaining your favorite movie, hobbies, and why you hate small talk feels like running a marathon uphill during a heatwave.

Then there’s the body confidence journey. Your body has changed, and not subtly. Things have shifted, redistributed, and taken on lives of their own. Jeans are now enemies. Bras are structural engineering projects. And yet, society insists you should feel “sexier than ever.” Listen, some days you feel confident and radiant. Other days you’re bloated, sweaty, and one comment away from joining a monastery.

Sex during menopause deserves its own disclaimer. Desire may be unpredictable. Vaginal dryness shows up uninvited like a bad party guest. And intimacy now requires preparation lube, lighting, hydration, emotional safety, and possibly a warm-up stretch. Romance is still possible, but spontaneity has left the building.

Dating also reveals a surprising upside: you care far less about nonsense. Red flags are no longer subtle. They are neon signs with sirens. If someone can’t communicate, lacks empathy, or disrespects your time, you don’t “give it a chance.” You give it a block. Menopause brings clarity. Glorious, unapologetic clarity.

And let’s not forget the confidence that comes with lived experience. You’ve survived careers, relationships, parenting, loss, and a body that now overheats like an old laptop. You are not dating to be chosen, you are dating to see if someone earns access to your peace, snacks, and carefully curated bedtime routine.

The truth is, dating in menopause can be frustrating, hilarious, awkward, and surprisingly empowering. You know who you are. You know what you want. And you absolutely know what you will no longer tolerate, including men who text “hey” with no punctuation.

So, if you’re dating in menopause, be kind to yourself. Laugh often. Wear breathable fabrics. Say no without guilt. And remember anyone lucky enough to date you is getting someone seasoned, self-aware, and emotionally intelligent hot flashes and all.

Romance isn’t over. It’s just evolved. And frankly, it now has better boundaries.

Sleep and Menopause: A Love Story That Filed for Divorce – With Survival Tips

Let’s talk about sleep in menopause, also known as “lying in bed staring at the ceiling while questioning every life choice since 1992.”

Before menopause, sleep was simple. You put your head on a pillow, closed your eyes, and woke up eight hours later like a normal, emotionally stable adult. During menopause? Your brain throws a rave at 2:47 a.m., your body temperature shifts from “glacier” to “volcanic eruption,” and your bladder suddenly behaves like a needy toddler that must be acknowledged immediately.

Hot flashes deserve their own special award. Nothing like waking up soaked in sweat, flinging the covers off dramatically, only to freeze 30 seconds later and burrito yourself back into your blankets like a human temperature malfunction.

And let’s not forget the intrusive thoughts. Menopausal insomnia isn’t peaceful. Oh no. Your brain uses this quiet time to replay awkward conversations from 2008 and ask questions like, “Did I respond weirdly to that email?” and “What if I need bangs?”

Sleep becomes a strategic operation. You have “night sweats pajamas,” “cool side of the pillow calculations,” and a fan that sounds like a small aircraft preparing for takeoff. There’s magnesium on the bedside table, melatonin in the drawer, lavender scents, white noise, pink noise, brown noise, and somehow you’re still wide awake at 3:12 a.m. googling, “Can I survive on spite and coffee alone?”

Now, the Part You Actually Care About: Things That Might Help

First, the surprisingly effective basics (yes, we hate to admit it): keep the bedroom cool, dark, and quiet. Think “luxury sleep cave,” not “tropical sauna.” Lightweight, breathable pajamas and moisture-wicking sheets can help you stop waking up like a microwaved burrito.

If hot flashes are the main sleep thief, hormone therapy (estrogen, with progesterone if you still have a uterus) can significantly improve night sweats and sleep quality for many women. Non-hormonal medications can also help, including certain antidepressants (like low-dose SSRIs or SNRIs), gabapentin (especially helpful for nighttime flashes), and newer medications that target the brain’s temperature control center.

Then there’s cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), which is the fancy, science-backed way of teaching your brain that the bed is for sleeping, not worrying, scrolling, or emotionally spiraling. And yes, it actually works, even though it sounds suspiciously reasonable.

Supplements? A few women find relief with magnesium, melatonin, or valerian, though results vary. Think of them as “may or may not help, but at least you tried” options.

Lifestyle tweaks matter too: limit evening caffeine, go easy on alcohol (that “nightcap” is a liar), and try gentle movement during the day. Even a short walk can help your body remember what “tired” is supposed to feel like.

And when all else fails, there’s radical acceptance: sometimes you just rest your eyes, enjoy the cool pillow, and remind yourself that insomnia builds character. Or at least enough material for comedy.

So tonight, when you’re awake at 2 a.m. again, just know you’re not broken, you’re not crazy, and you’re definitely not alone. You’re menopausal. And honestly? You’re kind of a legend. 😴